[TW: Reference to rape-as-compliment, cissexism]
Saw a comment on Fetlife about how all lesbians without exception hate cock and those who don’t aren’t ~real~ lesbians, wrote a rant about it in a rant group, and was reassured by skimming the handful of agreeable comments until I got to one where someone used “rape” in a context where most non-jackasses would say something like, “hit on/have sex with”. I’m still gonna stick around for a while after my brain calms down, but I’m starting to be reminded of why I avoid any sort of networking site that doesn’t allow one to be very selective of who they’re exposed to.